My one tip: Wear oversized men's shirt, tuck it messily into your jeans, add interesting accessories, and then tell yourself you look cool because you should always believe in yourself and your worth.

    Also, if no one else thinks you actually look cool or even mildly cool, YOU DO, gurlll.

    And oh, another tip: it'd be even better if you add an accessory that appears a little obnoxious  like my pair of shoes here. Anything obnoxious seems to help in upping the "cool factor" nowadays, if you can trust the street-stylers you see on Pinterest... (I obviously do.)

      I don't know about you guys but sometimes I induct something new into my wardrobe and I would assemble my entire outfit around that one thing; in this case, it was these lips print slip-ons. My little sister and her boyfriend spotted them on sale in a mall, took a photo of them and sent it to me with this message: "We KNOW you want these."

        Yep, my little sister knows me well.

            You guys ever planned an outfit around one item before?

            Wearing: Pull & Bear shirt (men's)  |  Bershka jeans  |  Flossy Style shoes (bought from Bratpack)  |  Natural Beauty Basic clutch (also in this gentlelady outfit!)  |  Meters/Bonwe fishnet socks (allll the way from Shanghai!)